As someone who teaches in an elite NYC private school I am very aware of the moral quandaries our parents find themselves in, a situation that was highlighted in the recent New York Magazine article, “Ethical Parenting.” Not being a parent myself I am cautious about judging those who are, but have to admit to discomfort at the justifications made for actions that benefit some at the expense of others. And so I was very happy to read Marjorie Ingall‘s riposte, “Ethical Parenting is More Than Possible: It’s Essential for Parents and Children Alike.” Marjorie is an urban parent, one whose children go to local public schools. (She has worked liked crazy to keep a library in one of them in this era where too many public school leaders see them as a frill). She is also a terrific writer — this article is smart, funny, and furious. Read it and then joint the rest of us who are waiting with bated breath for her forthcoming book.
Aw, thanks, Monica. Your blog’s a must-read for me. Congrats on YOUR book!
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You are most welcome. I also posted the link at school and there was a lot of interest.
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I love this article and clearly she is a kindred spirit! I hope you check out my blog which offers practical ways to teach the social and emotional skills she is referring to in family life.
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